There are so many expressions in each language that refer to the fact that people cannot change: "A leopard can't change its spots." "You can't teach an old dog new tricks." "Once a cheater, always a cheater." "People don't change, they just reveal who they really are." I don't…

In my experience there are three kinds of people in relationships, and we might go through a couple or all of the stages in our lifetime: 1. The really bad ones. So bad they don't even deserve to be in relationships. They yell, they hit, they cheat, they lie, manipulate and/or all sorts of other things.  They probably have deep…

Good people can end up doing some pretty bad things, not because they are evil, but because they are in varied ways tired or sad, worried or weak. Fundamentally decent people can at points behave less then optimally. Forgiving bad behavior is hard because of "splitting", a maneuver of the mind, a tendency to see people as …

I will greet this day with love in my heart. For this is the greatest secret of success in all ventures. Muscle can split a shield and even destroy life but only the unseen power of love can open the hearts of men and until I master this art I will remain no more than a peddler in the market place. I will make love my greatest we…

Some posts (like some people) might appear to be really small / meaningless, when in fact they hide such treasured wisdom. This is one of them. Cause these days I figured out something big - why they say: find yourself / love yourself, before you can love someone else, and how you can actually do it .   First, we all have love…