Sexual power - key to making someone fall in love?

It's a common belief that once a woman makes love to a man she becomes emotionally connected to him. Unless she is emotionally shut down and is able to make sex with no feelings.

So, as a woman, after you make love you are actually starting to feel love no matter how much or how little you like that man. (So ladies, be careful)

My question is: is this the proof that giving away your sexual power leads to love?

That would explain a lot.

What do you think?

6 comments:

b0gdan spunea...

In this post, is making love = having sex?

Because I believe you have the answer in the question.

When she makes love, she is already a bit in love... so she doesn't begin to love after the love making, she was already in love.

If you would have written she begins to love after having sex, it would have been a great question.

And besides, you have "sexual power" when you have sex.
When one makes love, it's just joy. It's not competition, or a supremacy quest, and so on. They are equal.

My opinion :p.

RO: De ce am scris in engleza?

Corwin spunea...

Fie sunt prea "old-school", fie prea "new-school", dar... nu cred :)

Iti dai seama ca sunt biete fete care se indragostesc de zor in fiecare vineri, sambata, duminica, etc. seara? :) Ca sa nu mai zic de bieti barbati de care se indragostesc de dimineata pana seara femei...

Nah... cred ca ar fi fost prea simplu :) Let's keep it complicated :)

Anonim spunea...

Absolut, clar, evident, fara nici un dubiu, 100%, no doubt. So, cum a fost?

Goja spunea...

How about if she only makes sex to a guy. Does that count? :D

Divis0R spunea...

Sincer, nu sunt deloc de acord cu chestia asta. In mod normal, daca nu iti place de un individ, nu te culci cu el. Fetele nu fac din sex un sport, asa cum fac o mare majoritate a barbatilor. Deci concluzia e: daca te-ai culcat cu cineva pe care nu il iubesti inca, e pentru ca vrei sa il iubesti.

Ela spunea...

Bogdan, problema e ca nu ma impac eu foarte bine cu notiunea de "having sex" :o) si intrebarea era alta.. dar mi-ai dat un raspuns grozav si-ti dau dreptate.

Corwin, fetele pe care le stiu eu se indragostesc foarte rar sau nu o mai fac deloc. But we're working on it. :)

Goja, ce-ai zis tu suna ca un protest impotriva sexului premarital. :))

Divis0r, you're on a roll and you are, sadly, right. Chiar si cand ea se culca cu el fara deeper intentions, tot un mess iese fiindca, dupa, stie ca e mai mult decat o sl*t si o sa incerce sa scoata o relatie din asta. Not simple, not funny, wrong. :)