People Tip

Motto: "What others think of us would be of little moment did it not, when known, so deeply tinge what we think of ourselves."

There are so many people in this world who worry about what others think of them. They are too many. And they worry too much. They can't stop wondering what other people think of them and they try to create an image that others will like even though that is not really reflective of who they are.

They never make a decision without someones approval and they take the slightest comment or mean thing they hear around them personally and feel miserable..

When in fact, nobody really cares. Nobody! People don't care about other people, they are way to busy thinking about themselves. Their life. Their happiness. Their problems. Their feelings. It's how are brain works. Empathy, as the ability to "put oneself into another's shoes", is a poor competitor with our huge amount of self-directed thoughts.

Build a stronger self confidence. Fight for it. Nobody is perfect so forget your flaws and concentrate on your successes. Take pride, be thankful and positive. Form your principles and stick to them. Finally, live your life your way.

2 comments:

Te-ai hotarat sa scrii numai in engleza? Daca da, sorry ca n-am si comentat in engleza. :D Imi pare rau si mi-e ciuda sa recunosc ca ai dreptate. Mi-e ciuda ca e adevarat, nu ca sunt de acord cu tine. :P oamenii nu mai sunt cu adevarat interesati de cei din jurul lor. Stau si ma intreb daca au fost vreodata interesati.

Ela spunea...

Exista momente cand pentru unii oameni reprezinti totul. :)

E doar o apucatura. Vorbesc mult in Engleza in timpul zilei si am inceput sa ma obisnuiesc cu ea. Parca si glumele sunt mai funnea :P